ANNOUNCEMENT-michael james Knapp is cheating w Dr Ann Duerr

notebookabout · Joined: 18 Feb 2006 Posts: 6

my very good friend, stacy has a cheating husband and doesn't know it. neither do the kids. they would all be devastated! the mistress is dr ann duerr, an assoc prof at the University of Washington. Does she know he is married? ?? he's been at it for years, lying to them all, saying he had "business trips", spending their hard earned money on five star trips, restaurants, show tickets, airfare for his mistress. DON"T DATE HIM GIRLS!!

Time_2_Heal · Joined: 15 Jun 2008 Posts: 9

I think that this post is fantastic. This is the perfect way to let people know about affairs that are going on (provided it is real & can be proven) by posting indisputable facts. Great idea! Cool

notebookabout · Joined: 18 Feb 2006 Posts: 6

thanks. my current dilemna is whether to keep quiet or to tell his wife. she is such a great person and such a terrific mother and wife, sigh....at least i can spread the word to others, tho.

Time_2_Heal · Joined: 15 Jun 2008 Posts: 9

That is the one of the toughest decisions a friend will ever have to make. When there is a marriage & kids involved 9 times out of 10 a women will forgive her husband and somehow you become the enemy. I have seen it happen so many times. But then when they find out themselves and they found out you knew and didn't tell they feel you have betrayed them. It's kind of a no win situation.
But when I was being cheated on, I knew deep down inside, Very seldom do we as women not know but I think we choose denial until we are ready to face it.
I'm sure you are so angry about what he is doing to her but you have to put that aside and think about how finding out will effect your friend at this moment in time. Plain and simple there is going to be devastation left in the wake of this. Maybe deep down she does know but is just not ready to face it. Just be her friend and feel her out and follow your heart and you will know what to do when the time is right. Maybe word will get to her from here who knows? My heart is with you both. Best wishes.

notebookabout · Joined: 18 Feb 2006 Posts: 6

thx so much. you sound , not only kind, but wise. that is why i have not told her yet. i guess i will know when the time is right.
sigh.....i really wonder if the mistress knows....such a bastard...

Lap_Dancer · Joined: 06 Jul 2008 Posts: 2

If he is a seriel cheater his wife probably knows and is choosing to ignore it for whatever reasons. I would not tell her it might strain your friendship. If anything, you can be the amazing friend that she needs by being there, listening and not judging. The house of cards usually fall down and when they do having you there to support her is true friendship.

notebookabout · Joined: 18 Feb 2006 Posts: 6

02 September, 2008 - 09:09
From: broadview
Subject: pls remove this post

i know you mean well. i am michael and i have stopped this. i do not want to harm anyone, so pls remove this post

SO FOLKS..what do you think? did the wife find out? or maybe the mistress? should i believe him and remove it? WOW...maybe this site can really help to identify, expose and straighten out liars and cheaters....

housematejudith · Joined: 05 Sep 2008 Posts: 1

I cannot believe this! A Dr and a woman!! A father and a husband! I looked her up and wouldn't you know it, a supposedly reputable, intelligent, prominent Dr and a teacher!! This woman is educating our children? Making money on us. Now we know why we have so many problems in this country!! I can't stand accomplished, smart (probably rich!) women who think they are above morality because of who they are. What an immoral slut! What do her children think of her? What are they going to be like when they grow up? She supposedly helps families around the world but could be responsible for breaking up an American family and harming another woman let alone children. How dare she. Shame on her and her gigilo boyfriend. And what about him? Not much on the web about him, so he must not be such a great find. Shame, Shame, Shame...

broadview · Joined: 02 Sep 2008 Posts: 37

hi all. i am mike's wife stacy. mike told me about his affairs earlier this summer and has promised me that they have ended and that he is not interested in pursuing relationships with anyone else.
we are currently working on our marriage.
i believe that dr ann duerr did not know he was married and is another innocent victim. i do not wish her any harm as she must be devastated as well to have found this information out after so long. mike has told me that he has also told her that he is married.
so, in the interest of compassion and fairness please remove this posting.
you mention that you know me and are my friend. thank you so much for your concern and effort.
if you want to validate that this is, indeed stacy, please contact me. mikewife56@yahoo.com Smile

notebookabout · Joined: 18 Feb 2006 Posts: 6

oh boy, i am shocked. glad it's out in the open now. please understand why i felt torn about telling you. but how do i know that this is not michael? i will validate this, but i must say, this is very big of you. this does not surprise me knowing what a kind and generous person you are. letting them off the hook is quite admirable of you, and kind if the mistress really didn't know. but really, how could she not have known after 2 1/2 years? she's no dummy! but what a fool! oh well, women allow themselves to be taken in every day. all i can say to her is wise up and to you, you're being an angel. after validating that this is you, i will remove the posting, tho i don't think he deserves it! (and PS...don't be surprised if he does it again, once a cheat, always a cheat)

DontGetMadGetEvi · Joined: 27 Aug 2008 Posts: 10

I first noticed this posting last week when I was browsing the Seattle postings looking for anyone who was familiar to me. I agree that anyone cheating deserves to be ousted in any forum but also has the right to dispute or comment on the issue. Being a former UW grad I also felt that Dr. Duerr had the right to be made aware of this post and respond.
I contacted Dr. Duerr last week and made her aware of this post. She was simply shocked and seemed confused by what was said. The most interesting comment that she made was this "Stacy has been deceased for many years, why would someone say things like that?"
I truly believe that Dr.Duerr believed that because she was told that. I also believe that she was genuinely shocked by the information revealed in this posting. I also believe that Mr. Knapp will do anything or say anything to cover his tracks at this point and I would be shocked if it was actually Stacy that posted the previous comment claiming to be her, but then again do I really care? No I don’t. Best of luck to all of you involved in this situation and to the children who may someday find out via posting like this of there parents infidelities.

notebookabout · Joined: 18 Feb 2006 Posts: 6

Wow! He actually told her that his wife was DEAD? How awful! What a sick creep! I almost feel like not removing the post but since dontgetevengetevi has said that the mistress did not know and that she seemed like a decent person, tho I find it very hard to believe that such a smart peson after 2 1/2 years would not know, I will remove the post. You have no idea what a great person his wife is. She is smart, talented, kind just wonderful, a great mother and wife. She does not deserve this. Hope she dumps him.