TELLY FARROW

[RJParker]

I know Telly Farrow very well and I find your comments to be over exaggerated. Telly can definitely be a self centered jerk. However, if you feel he used you, your credit or credit cards it was handed to him, he didn’t take it from an unwilling party. Honestly if anything, his biggest weakness and strength is his ability to get people do what he may ask of them, there is always the option to say no. He’s convincing, not a con artist. I also would not use fraud to describe Telly, if anything he is brutally honest; he’ll tell you all his business if you’re a willing listener. For the most part he has good intentions and he actually has his partner’s best interest in mind. The control issues come into play when he feels he’s right and is inflexible about the options, but isn't that typical of most men?

Dangerous? Come on.... He can work a nerve and push buttons like no other and then when you snap he snaps back. He will not back down from an argument even if he’s not that angry at the circumstances. He has a quick temper, not a stupid one. Telly has an infectious personality and women particularly become very possessive and act accordingly, but unlike a scorned women, he is no threat.

I’m not sure what Telly did to make you write this posting, but he clearly hurt you tremendously. The bible say’s we should be forgiving of even our worst enemies. I’m sorry if he hurt you and only Telly and God can work through what he did to you; but vengeance is unhealthy and you deserve to be happy. Please don’t let it imprison you. He is no angel, but he’s not as you described him. He is very dateable and a compassionate friend.

This may be a consolation of sorts, when Telly chooses to be with you, it’s because he likes you not because he needs you, and if he really likes you he’ll captures your heart for sure. His feelings are real and sincere. My advice, don’t fall in love with him or do anything for him until he shown you that he deserves you and he will, if you’re the woman he wants to be with. FYI, he does not gage how much he cares for you by how much you give to him or do for him. One thing has nothing to do with other, a common mistake when dealing with Telly.

Telly values his friends and family deeply, sometimes he associates loyalty with entitlement and in return expects a lot unjustifiably. He’s a big kid and actually a lot of fun. He cares very much for his friends and loved ones. He may have a hard time showing it when he’s stubborn about something, but those of us who know him, understand him.

I would suggest if a woman ever meets Telly and decides to date him just make sure it’s Telly you like and not what you think he has or represents, something we as women are frequently guilty of. He's not "wealthy" at the moment, but he comes rich in spirit. However, you really have to be willing to accept the good and the bad of him and understand how Telly thinks. He is often misunderstood. He beats to the sound of his own drum and follows his own set of rules such as, "act now and explain later" rule, if you betray him in anyway, he will completely become emotionally detached no matter how much he cares you, but by then you’ve been replaced anyway.

You need a lot of patience, loyalty, selflessness, independence and confidence. His bark is bigger then his bite ( he’s a Leo/ Virgo cusp if you believe that makes a difference) lol. Most importantly don’t do something for him and complain later. If you do anything at all, do it because you want to, with no expectations, because if you’re doing it to keep him it will not work. I Promise you.....

One last note, his records are mostly misdemeanors from an on going battle with his drivers license which has a lot to do with the issue of him depending on others (which he hates to do by the way) supporting him in accomplishing things i.e. putting things in someone else’s name (with their permission), but he will give you everything he has when he has it. Keep in mind as his girlfriend, guy friend, whatever, if you do help him that’s your judgment and decision, not his.

Telly is very driven, intelligent, intuitive, ambitious, passionate and sometimes over zealous, but I am confident that the right woman on Telly side will be very lucky in love and he will surprise us all. Whatever you feel, don’t make him in to something he is not just because he wasn’t what “you” expected or needed him to be.

[ruforreal]

It appears that there are allot of woman that say they know TELLY FARROW very well....to respond to RJPARKER, I do not know the extent to which you know him or how long...but I have met people that knew him from birth to present and he is FULL OF S**T!

Everything that DONTDOIT212 has said is true. He is conniving and how much do you know of his legal records? His DMV records are based on the fact that for ten years he ran from authorities, rather than putting his money into cleaning up his driving records he attempted to "make him self look good for others" IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH DEPENDING ON OTHERS. Do you know that he had an attempted murder charge back in New York yrs ago? Do you know that he currently in Jail sentenced on charges for "theft by Deception"? Google his name...even car dealerships are turning their face from Telly. He is known for FRAUD. Weather you know this or not...I could care less.

When I first read DONTDOIT212 post, I thought it was very on point and precise however since you choose to contest to everything that was said I felt the need to give you some info that you may not have know about Telly.

And when I read your paragraph about how much he values his friends and family...that made me want to puke....ARE YOU SERIOUS? Your talking about the same person that did not attend his sisters wedding to walk her down the aisle because he rather be with a girl, or perhaps the same person that was not there for his dieing grandmother who raised him and gave him every penny she had....or the same person who has no relationship with his 9yr old (around that age give or take a few yrs) son who he does not intentionally acknowledge.

I could go on and on and on...but what the use? Ladies if you’re reading about Telly Farrow...listen to DONTDOIT212. I do not know DONTDOIT212....however they have summed him up precisely.