WHAT WOULD THE RIGHT WOMAN FOR YOU BE.?

[FUZZY1]

GUYS BE HONEST. WHAT WOULD THE RIGHT WOMAN FOR YOU BE?. SOMEONE WHO YOU WOULD MARRY. EXPLAIN THE QUALITIES SHE WOULD HAVE AND TYPE OF WOMAN SHE WOULD BE.

[Orion23]

I am engaged to a woman who has all of the traits that I look for and some that I didn't even know I wanted. She epitomizes all of the characteristics that want in a woman. Here are the highlights:

INTELLECT: She is extremely smart. Not only that, she is wise. I love that her mind is so sharp and she can stimulate my mind. She has a great understanding of life situations as well. That is where the wisdom comes in. We have the greatest conversations about topics ranging from academic to art to our childhoods. And, she is able to always provide me with a different viewpoint, which is great.

SEX APPEAL: My lady is extremely sexy and it's natural. She can bring about the butterflies with a flirtatious glance or with something as innocent as walking across the room to get the groceries. I cannot get my mind around how she seems to make EVERYTHING she does seem so sexy to me and that's the beauty of it. She's not trying to be sexy. She just is.

ADAPTABLE: We are extremely goofy together. And yet, she can turn it off in a heartbeat and be serious and business-like when the situation calls for it. I guess she just knows how to carry herself and that is an extremely attractive trait.

HONESTY AND MORALS: I love how honest she is. When talking about the good or bad, I always feel like she is being honest and she stands on what she says. She is very candid with me about everything and I am with her as well. She is a moral person that lives by a certain code. I have seen her be good to those who have it in their spirit to be mean to her. She does not let them stop her from doing the good thing that is in her heart. In doing that, she gained my respect more than I think she knows.

DRIVEN: She is very driven and is working towards achieving her goals. She has also caused me to set my goals higher than what I did before because I want to make her proud. I feel like we will do great things together because we will help to drive one another.

There are so many other things. I guess that I just got lucky and have a smart, beautiful, sexy, driven, honest, moral, adaptable woman to call my own. She challenges me, which I love. But ultimately, she makes me want to be the best man that I can be for her. I think that's the culmination of everything. All that she is makes me love her so much that I want to be everything for her, the way that she is for me.

[catscalw]

Orion,
Dude, love your posts.
They are well thought out and respectful. It really sounds like you found the right lady for you: That's awesome!

For me, my wife has many of the quilities you outlined, she is honest to the point of being inappropriate, she is gorgeous to the point of stopping conversation when she walks in the room, she sees humour all around her every day, she is passionate to the point of eclipsing me if i don't stand my ground.

But the most important things are the things we have between us. She has opened her heart to me, and dwells in my heart like a household spirit.

We don't have a perfect marriage...we struggle with intimacy, and sometimes go months without having sex. We argue...we both act out...we stuggle with keeping up on the laundry and the dishes (I do all the cooking, 'cause I used to be a professional chef, and love it, and she hates to cook) We go through all of this shit that life throws at us, whether it comes from the outside world, or from inside one of us... and we are still together. There has been no infidelity on either side, no abuse. There has been a lot struggle: a lot of growth. There have been long periods of simply being together with no drama and story.

We have a basic commitment, both to ourselves and each other, to keep growing in the relationship.

She's far from perfect. I don't know about the rest of you guys, but my wife is really like the sea, sometimes cradling me lika a lovely warm tropical pool, and sometimes a raging tempest that towers over me and sweeps me away. For me, that's what it IS to be sharing your life with a woman, and i pray that she's the woman that I will be waking up next to for the rest of my life.

[courtneyiscool]

What a nice thing to say about your wife!