why do women set different SEX LIMTIS with different men.

[j pierre]

a lot of women have rules and certain DO's & DONT's when it comes to sex. some say they wont do anal sex.....and some say they find blowjobs disgusting.......and some say they dont like certain sex positions.

all this is understandable as we all have likes and dislikes. but im pretty much convinced that women dont follow these rules they say out in open. they set different SEX LIMITS with different men

i know you'll sayy its about trust and how deep the relationshp is. but im just talking about CASUAL SEX. that a woman wont give a blowjob to a casual sex partner she meets at a bar for a one noght stand but THAT SAME WOMAN will give a blowjob to the man she loves orher husband.

but i am just talking about CASUAL SEX here. and women set different limits for different men. if a woman who says she hates blowjobs etc gets in bed with a really attractive masculine guy then she would feel anxious about pleasring him and give im a blowjob which she otherwise dont give to the usual average joes she sleeps with. with them she may like to ride on top and get her satisfied...but a really attractive and masculine guy can make the same woman submissive in bed and even do things which she otherwise says she will never do......like anal sex or take the submissive role in bed bcos she is intimidated.

[square813]

first from what i heard my friends say with casual sex is just that, it is sex so why put forth the effort. both parties want to screw so that is what they do.

second my hub wanted to have anal but i never would and yes that area is definitely a trust issue and yes i did do that with the guy i dated after my hub passed i was curious.

third women i know when they are dating wont do oral unless the man does too.

casual sex isnt a seven coarse meal its a drive thru special at 3 in the morning

[j pierre]

but doesnt it depend upon the ATTRACTIVENESS of the man youre sleeping with ?

[square813]

are you going to give 110% to a quickie youll never see again. attractiveness is nice but it still doesnt change the scenerio

[j pierre]

let me pu it this way ...i know some girls who say that they'll never give blowjobs. when they slept with lets say A & B (whom i knew) they didnt but when they slept with C (who is a really attractive and masculine guy) they give blowjobs. and all the time it was just one night stands.

[square813]

ok. the guys cute. so your going to believe him. people lie. he could cum quick or she can stink you do you think theyll confess.

[eminatic]

why do women set different sex limits with different men? because different men are DIFFERENT.

allowing certain things takes RESPECT and TRUST. and no, you cannot get this with CASUAL SEX (that's why its called "casual") you get what you earn.

[MysteriousLurker]

I think it depends on the different sexual types more than anything. Many women are submissive and shy and are afraid to ask for things in bed. They want a man that will take charge and just "make them do it." Maybe an ex-boyfriend destroyed their confidence in bed with snide or hurtful remarks. There are a million reasons why some women will react differently to different men. For the most part, it has less to do with looks and more to do with the way a man carries himself. Women are not generally as superficial as men are when it comes to looks. Most women just want a man to be a man. It's a primal thing that is built into our genetic code. Try to remember that we, as a species, are not far removed (genetically) from the days we lived in caves, hunted for food, and dragged our women into the caves by their hair. We are what we are...

[MysteriousLurker]

Bear in mind that I am referring to casual sex here...

If true love is involved then all boundaries will evaporate. It is the nature of love to put the desires of your partner first. If the love is mutual, this will work both ways. Oh wait, i am talking about perfection here, aren't I? Silly me....

Disregard my silly notions.