Ok ladies I have a good one for you..I was a unhappily married woman with 3 children when I met the man of my dreams...or so I thought..He knew exactly the words to move me to fall madly deeply and truely in love with him...so I left my husband and moved in with this man who promised the world to me...When he wanted to moved back home to PR to be close to his mother, I agreed and sold everything so that we could do that...trusting him when he told me that he would never hurt me... Well 6 months into it he told me that it would be best if I moved back home to live with my father, because the kids were unhappy..when in truth the only one unhappy was him...crushed and in shock I relized that this was a HUGE MISTAKE, that he wasn't who he had promised to be.. I have moved back home with my father, and now have to begin all over with nothing. In the two year we were together he sucked me dry...I have never been so hurt, to just be used up and then dismissed..

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Married man are always looking for something out side of home it's like what they got at home isn't good enough for them at all!But my thing is why did you marry the person if you don't plan to do right by the person at home and god! To me he is disunioner himself and god and one day he will have to answer to god!!!!!A married man should all ways think about the cause and effect of what they do!!!!I think married men are selfish and only think of themself and not the people that love them!!

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I'm new to this site and I'm sure this topic has been discussed a million times before but please help me out, I am suffering from the age old killer of relationships - jealousy. And it sucks, it eats away at me inside though I know my agitated feelings have no logic behind them. I have been dating my boyfriend for about three and a half months and he tells me he loves me daily, he is just about always there for me and he is like the guy of my dreams, the one I'm pretty sure could be Mr. Right, after years of dating creep upon creep. But the thing that drives me nuts and is killing our relationship is the horrific jealousy I always feel whenever he mentions one of his exes or tells me a story about them or shows me a photograph. I hate it. I freak out and don't want to talk to him. My policy has always been ignorance is bliss. I just don't want to know how his ex-girlfriends look or to see in a picture a necklace he gave her when they were going out. His policy is that I should know about his past so that I can get to know who he is today. My policy is aaarrgh - I'm constantly comparing myself - I don't look like any of these other chicks, they all have bigger bra sizes, blond beach chick looks. Though they were all much older than him and did have kids which should be of some comfort. I know I clearly suffer from low self esteem problems and I'm from another country and without family etc... while he is Southern California born and raised and has a ton of friends and a great and loving family. No matter how hard I explain he cannot understand the insecurities that eat away at my insides like a cancer, my exaggerated thoughts and ensuing depression. I know he is faithful to me and these women are no threat so why do I constantly compare myself to these exes and stupidly feel they were somehow better than me and how do I make him understand to quit bringing stuff up I don't want to hear and stop feeling angry for no reason before I completely destroy what could be a great relationship. It sounds simple enough and I will think I have it under control and rationalize everything but takes little more than a picture or a comment to set me off again. Help - I know this is sick and stupid behavior - Thanks.

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I am a mother of 2 wonderful girls!! I am only gonna say this cuz I think that it is true!! HE IS A DEAD BEAT FATHER!! My kids are 8 and 11 and he also has a 19 yr old son from another woman...this man doesnt know the meaning of CHILD SUPPORT! I left him 2 yrs ago not intending on getting CHILD SUPPORT until he started talkin about kids with the new woman in his life!! By beliefs are between the 2 of them they do not need anymore kids!! I am now tryin to figure out what to do!! I only asked that he buy them an outfit for school and a months worth of school snacks..which will cost about $30 and the man refuses to do anything about it!! IF ANYONE OUT HERE CAN TELL ME ANYTHING IM OPEN FOR ANYTHING!!! Thanks

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We work together, and I fell for him the first time i saw him. We were friends for a year before anything happened between us. After 5 months together we ended it because we didnt see eachother enough, twice a week at work wasnt enough for me. I wasnt asking for him to be with me fulltime, just one night a week or even an afternoon would be enough. He told me due to work, school and family commitments he didnt have time. But after we graduated in 3 months time maybe we could get back together. Less than 2 weeks on, hes dating again. I meant so much to him as you can see. Im hurt and devestated. I knew from day 1 he was a player, but i was to besotted to use my common sense indicators that were going off in my head. I shouldnt have let it go as far as it did. Ive learnt my lesson now. Its just a shame that it hurts so much.

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I have been in relationships of very little meaning then I fell I love with someone who made me feel comfortable enough to trust him. Things seemed great we both have been played and were tired of game playing people. He gave me total access to him and I did the same. By the way he retired from the military two years ago.He said he gave me the blueprint and I failed to read it. Now the relationship is over and I feel like a fool for falling in love.We work at the same place and I left a doctor( who wanted to marry me) for this guy.I feel like a 16 year old who has fallen in love the very first time.I did't want this relationship to go public but he put it out there saying I was his woman. Now I feel like he has thrown me away without a honest try to put thing together after the small upset we had.

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